pumpkincat wrote:Quite welcome! And yeah, it will vary depending on weapon. I only own one handgun, though, and the Weaver stance works best for me for that (it's a Remington 1911 chambered in .45ACP). Fairly macho recoil, but the weight of the pistol soaks up a lot of it, making it a good choice (contrary to what a lot of idiots try to tell me) for a woman's grip. The handgrip itself is built for a medium to small-sized hand, which is the big problem for a lot of women. Soaks up recoil, accurate in aiming (as accurate as the shooter, anyway), good penetration - the only down side I see is that some people prefer something you can conceal more readily. And it is a heavy piece of hardware.
My other firearms are all long guns, of varying levels of historical interest. All of them are practical and functional pieces, however.
I actually use on a fairly regular basis, a Colt 1911 .45. Lovely gun, that. You can see why the .45 was a soldier's best friend. I will, 90% of the time, use said Weaver stance, but for fun, I did the extended arm thing, and it worked reasonably well for me, for having that sort of recoil. Given what you've said, the weight of it's probably the reason, plus a firm grip [actually, it might be easier to manage the recoil in that grip, for me, and I have no idea why]. It's got a meatier handgrip than the one you've described, so my hold has to be very different in the Weaver grip for it, than my Glock .40, comparably.
And don't forget stopping power. Unless they have Power Armour or something, standard infantry, or people, will usually be stopped like a brick wall just hit them. And the last bits are indeed true. Out of my arsenal [GUN SAFE] I can think of the Glocks doing the job for a mugging, or even the .357 revolver, for a wild west flair.
Speaking of historical, there's the Colt, plus a very old .22 rifle, plus an M1 Carbine.
Relevant: Today my dad came across an article where a mugger with a gun, demanding a whole wallet, TRIED mugging an MMA fighter, and got the HELL beat out of him. He look messed up, and hilariously so. I think there might be some very coincidental parallels here, especially for the Jamie-kicking-mugger's-arse theory.